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This Newsletter is dedicated in loving memory of Evelyn
Adler, who passed away on May 30, 2005.
 Because she was so special to us, I just wanted to share
a little about Evelyn with our readers. When Dr. Adler told me his
mother wanted to work with us, at first I didn't know what to say;
would things work out? I told him we'd love to have her join us. She
ended up being our best employee ever! I'm sure many of you remember
seeing her greeting our patients, talking to them about the practice,
bringing them coffee and magazines. She enjoyed meeting people and
developed long-lasting friendships with many of our patients.
To our staff, she was known as "Mama Adler". She always took care of
us; she made us special lunches and even drove them down and served
them herself to our Stafford office staff. She spoke Spanish fluently
so she translated for many of our Spanish speaking patients. She was
thrilled when one of our patients asked her to sit with her when she
went to the hospital - Evelyn actually stayed through the patient's
entire labor and delivery!
 Evelyn adopted our children as her "grandchildren".
Linda Cox, our clinical coordinator has a granddaughter, Ashleigh, whom
Evelyn dearly loved. She bought her her first pair of pink cowboy
boots! My children, Megan and Ben, frequently sat and visited with
Evelyn in her office. She would tell them stories about her family and
her travels. Whenever she'd go on vacation, Evelyn would bring them
each a little souvenier. They were especially fond of the "trolls" she
brought back from Norway. When she moved to Florida, she'd call the
office and speak to as many of us as she could, keeping track of how
all of us were doing. Even when she was so ill, her first words were,
"How are you and how is your family?"
Evelyn is survived by her five children - Alf, Karen,
Signe, Stephen and Eric and her ten grandchildren - Jamie, Ben,
Benjamin, Michelle, Matthew, Andres, Gabriela, Alejandro, Andrea and
Daniela.
Evelyn will be sorely missed. We are truly lucky to have
known her. She will never be forgotten.
-written by Felecia Chinn, Practice Adminstrator
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How to Talk About Sex with Your Teenager |
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written by Rita-Marie Goudreau,CNM
The Key is Effective Communication
At the heart of parents' concerns about teens and sex is
the desire to protect their children. For perspective and guidance,
Neil Bernstein, a clinical psychologist and Dr. Meg Meeker, a
pediatrician, have written books based on some 20 years experience with
teens. These experts offer their advice for parents on how to
communicate with their teenagers about sex.
Adapted from Neil Bernstein's
"How to Keep Your Teenagers Out of Trouble and What to Do if
You Can't"
Ten keys to effective communication:
- Enter their world be curious about their interests (music,
sports, movies, etc.) Let them educate you (even if you find their
choices a bit offensive.)
- Get to know their friends and remember just because someone
has blue hair and an earring - it doesn't make them an ax-murderer.
(Remember Eddie Haskell from Leave it to Beaver.)
- Be sure you have their attention. Don't try to talk to them
on the run. (e.g.: Catch them when they're captive in the car, having a
late night snack, etc.)
- Start conversations on a positive note. Use a compliment
(e.g.: You know I really enjoy your sense of humor.)
- Match their moves. If they're really sad about something or
excited get into it with them. (e.g.: a cute guy just called them.)
- Ask questions that promote discussion. (e.g.: How did you
feel about your friend getting suspended from school for making out in
the hallway?)
- Tell stories about yourself. Share some embarrassing moments
relevant to their experience.
- Make sure your conversations are give and take. That is, your
teenager should talk roughly as much as you do. (A one-sided parental
lecture is not a good conversation.)
- Remind them that you care about them even when they have made
a mistake.
- Try to spend at least ten minutes a day in active
conversation.
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Women's Health Seminar: The Facts About Libido and Female
Sexual Desire |
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Learn about the role hormones play in affecting sexual
desire throughout your lifespan. The goal of this seminar is to provide
you with the information surrounding the causes, treatment and
prevention of a low libido. Dr. Adler, along with Rita-Marie Goudreau,
CNM, will be speaking at this seminar. It will be held on Tuesday, July
26, 2005 in our Woodbridge office from 6:30pm-7:30pm. Bring a friend or
partner. Light refreshments will be served.
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Tiffany's Birth Story |
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written by Tiffany Ashe and co-written by mom -
Glenda Ashe
Hello my name is Tiffany Ashe, and on May 19, 2005 I gave birth to a
healthy baby boy at the Potomac Hospital in Woodbridge, Virginia. My
son's name is Syeare Mekhi Perrin-Ashe, and his weight at birth was 5
pounds 13 ounces. He was born natural and he is a healthy perfect baby
boy. His name means "Africa King," his nickname is King Siah.
Prior to giving birth, I received all my medical care
from the Adler Center for Women's Health, and each Doctor and all of
the midwives and nurses were very patient, helpful, informative, kind,
gentle, and they cared about my needs. They made sure I received the
best care for my unborn child and myself. As a teen mother, I received
lots of instructions and all the love and prayers from my family and
friends. I also received support from my church.
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Listen to What Our Patients Have to Say About The Adler
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Greetings Dr. Adler, I was recently in for a visit
and had another provider I had never met before. I forgot her name but
she was very pretty and blonde. The reason I am writing this is from
the lady at the front desk, to the one who took me back to Melissa and
then the other midwife it was a pleasure to be seen and cared for by
your practice. Each one was very pleasant, very informed, and extremely
patient with my MANY questions. Thank you for being a practice that not
only cares about its patents but is also staffed with highly skilled
and competent personal. As long as I am in this area, your office will
always be recommended by me and used by me. - T.S.
Dr. Adler was very patient with us, answering all of
my questions in addition to answering all of my husband's questions as
well. I have never felt like I was rushed, and have always felt like I
was important to your practice. I think other doctor's offices could
learn from some of the procedures you have in place. I especially
appreciate your voicemail message on the advice nurse's voicemail about
the times that return calls are made. I really feel like I am important
to you, not just another patient. - D.W.
I just wanted to let you know how I feel/what I think
about the newsletter I am e-mailed every month. The first one that I
received brought a smile to my face and I thought to myself, "I did
pick the right doctor/doctors' office!" Your newsletter answers a lot
of questions that I think of when I am at home, but forget to ask at my
appointment sometimes, because of 'commotion' that happens at a
doctors' visit. When I read the newsletter, and I find/read these
different answers, that at one point or another I have thought of, it
leaves me feeling very calm and content. This also shows to me that all
of you in Dr. Adler's 'office family', are really concerned about our
welfare and care. Thank you for being so kind and considerate! - M.G.
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Employee of the Month - Rosie Rosado, Billing Manager |
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Hola! My name is Rosie Rosado. I have been working for
the Adler Center for about a year and a half now. I am the Billing
Manager responsible for all aspects of our billing department and the
Woodbridge receptionist staff. What I like most about the Adler Center
is the ability of my colleages to be professional, caring and sincere
with each other and with all of our patients.
I am from Puerto Rico and speak Spanish fluently. My
hobbies include shopping, shopping, and more shopping! I have a special
interest in collecting antiques such as Fenton glass, Wedgewood, etc.
My husband and I have two daughters and a grandson whom we enjoy
spending time with.
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CA 125 and BRCA Genes |
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Written by Monica Byrne, CNM
We know that genetics and family history play a role in the risk of a
woman developing many health problems including heart disease, high
cholesterol, various cancers, osteoporosis, and diabetes to name a few.
As the technology, publicity, and access to testing increases, more
women are asking themselves if they should consider genetic screening.
There are many factors that should be taken into consideration before a
woman makes that decision. At a minimum she should be aware of the
accuracy of the test, how and when the results will be reported, who
will have access to that information, the cost of the testing, how the
procedure is done, if insurance covers the tests, and what options will
be available to her given the specific results. Though less tangential,
issues related to the impact of that information should also be
considered. Who will she share that information with? Maybe siblings
and offspring don't want to know if they too may have an increased
risk. Would positive or negative results change your lifestyle? Whereas
some may feel motivated to continue healthy habits with a negative
screen, others might feel a false sense of security.
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Share Your Baby Story! |
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What is a baby story? Well, it's a story that is written
by a new mom which tells about her experience with delivering her baby
through the Adler Center. By sharing these stories, new patients can
see what delivering with the Adler Center is like, family and friends
can read about your birth and see pictures on our website, you can brag
about your experience through labor and help other mothers prepare by
allowing them to read about your experience.
We encourage moms that have delivered not only recently, but even if
they delivered with us several years ago to share their story(s). It's
always interesting to see what other people go through during their
pregnancy and delivery. Click
here to read some of the baby stories already published in our
E-Newsletters and on our website.
So far, our subscribers have loved reading our baby stories each month.
Many people have told us that they can't wait until the next
E-Newsletter to read another! If your baby was delivered by The Adler
Center, and you would like to share your experience on our E-Newsletter
and website, we urge you to write an article and email it to us. Don't forget
to send a picture to go along with the article!
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What topics would you like to learn about? We select
topics for this E-Newsletter based on concerns we hear about in the
office and the latest medical news. If you have a health issue you'd
like to read about, a seminar topic you'd like to hear about, or any
suggestions about how to better our practice - please let us know. We
welcome your suggestions and comments!
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